Set Free: "Love Always Wins!"

Cape Elizabeth Church of the Nazarene

Texts: Romans 14:1-12
Date: April 28, 2002
Author: Rev. Jeffrey T. Barker
 

          “Pastor, you’re wrong!”  Those words greeted me one Monday morning shortly after I arrived in my study.  Ripping open the Bible, this person informed of where I was wrong and what needed to be done about it!  Interrupting the conversation I attempted to communicate how and why I interpreted a certain doctrine of the church in a particular manner.  Rebuked for being wrong I was told that my ministry was in vain and I was a tool of Satan.  I responded offering that “we’d have to agree to disagree on this particular issue.”  We prayed and the person left my study never to return.      

          “You’re wrong!”  That, apparently, was a common phrase bouncing around the fellowship times at the Rome First Church.  “You can’t do that and still be Christian!”  “You can’t eat that and call yourself a Christian!” “You can’t go there and still be Christian!”  “You have to celebrate these festivals if you want to remain a part of this community!”  “No I don’t!”  “Yes you do!”  It appears that the fellowship at Rome First Church was fractured and fragmented.  And so Paul writes, after clarifying that one is set free from sin by grace through faith alone, “welcome those who are weak in faith, but not for the purpose of quarreling over opinions” (Romans 14:1).

          Can you believe it?  In light of the Gospel and who Christ has made us to be through his death and resurrection, there were disagreements within the body of Christ -- the Church!  And it seems to be over issues of food and festivals.  A disagreement over food?  Imagine the scene with me.  A group here says that being Christian means eating only vegetables on fellowship days.  No meat.  No dessert.  No chocolate.  Another group, catching wind of the plan, shows up with only meat, dessert, and chocolate flaunting their position that they can be Christian and eat only meat, dessert, and chocolate. 

          In essence, that’s the type of community to which Paul is writing.  But it really wasn’t about food or festivals, the deeper issue was whether one could be Christian and still be a Jew or whether being a Gentile Christian meant that you had to become Jewish.  Unfortunately, neither group knew where to draw the line regarding their faith and the living out of their faith.

          Fortunately, we’ve moved far beyond those issues of food and festivals.  Or have we?  In the early years of the Church of the Nazarene there was much discussion and debate over issues of dress, dance, and other secondary details.  You see, some from the Northern area believed the southerners carried with them a little too much legalism.  Here this accounting of the merger at Pilot Point in 1908:

“And so at last the October day came when weary travelers from four corners of the nation climbed off the trains at Pilot Point and headed for the big tent beside Brother Roberts’ rescue home.  The links of their fellowship had been forged on many anvils, yet tense moments of debate must temper them again before they could be joined.  At one point in the proceedings, discussion of such matters as wedding rings and tobacco became so heated that H. D. Brown rose to suggest that if union could be had only at the price of multiplying rules the Nazarenes should let the southerners go.  His speech, repeated several times, was finally reduced to the words, “Mr. Chairman, let them go.”  Dr. Bresee, his hand upraised, responded each time, “We cannot let them go, Brother Brown; they are our own folks.”  Like so many other leaders in both North and South, Bresee had caught the vision of a national holiness denomination, which should set ablaze a line of churches and missions in every city of the nation.

          “Under the grip of this simple, evangelistic impulse, the southerners agreed to accept the consecration they could see in place of the legislation they desired.  The delegates agreed to spell out in full in the “general rule” on modesty and simplicity the scriptural references to woman’s dress in I Timothy 2:9-10 and I Peter 3:8.  They reworded slightly the “advice” on tobacco, and dropped the ring ceremony from the marriage ritual.  But that was all.  What won out over argument was brotherliness; love prevailed over law.  And so the Nazarenes became one people, North and South, East and West” (Timothy Smith, Called Unto Holiness: The Story of the Nazarenes: The Formative Years, p. 220).

           But where do we draw the line?  How do we prevent ourselves from falling into the “whatever goes” trap currently engulfing society at large?  (For we know that the manner in which we live is a reflection of our faith and our understanding of who God is in our lives.)  How do we love when we disagree adamantly?  How do we love when others criticize us or our way of doing things? 

          We know that Paul is writing to a Christian church, people like you and me.  We know that each person is an individual and that Paul’s context is especially difficult due to the mixture of Jewish Christians and Gentile Christians.   But, in some senses, it sounds as if Paul might fit well within this postmodern, relativistic culture.  Tolerance is the goal!  What’s right for me, might not be right for you but that’s okay!  So, then, what is our position and posture to other Christians?  To other churches?  To other para-church groups and organizations?  Better yet, what is Christian freedom? 

          Paul’s point is that the Christian is not a law unto himself or herself.  And neither is any Christian a law unto someone else.  One cannot claim freedom for oneself without allowing freedom to the other.  What is right for one cannot be a sure guide to what is right for another. 

          But. . . what, then, is of unarguable necessity?  What is the core conviction to which we must adhere? 

          As we look into these words in chapter 14 we must refresh ourselves with what has said previously.  In Romans 8 he writes: “For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death” (v. 2).  Because of the work of God in Christ and by accepting his free gift of new life by confessing with our lips and believing in our hearts that Jesus was raised from the death and by opening ourselves completely to him, we are set free from sin.  Then, in another work of God, the very Spirit of Christ -- the Holy Spirit -- frees us from the prescribed law by cleansing us of sin and, in it’s place, fills us with the very love of God and we are set free to love.  Charles Wesley writes: “Long my imprisoned spirit lay, Fast bound in sin and nature’s night.  Thine eye diffused a quick’ning ray.  I woke; the dungeon flamed with light!  My chains fell off; my heart was free. I rose, went forth, and followed thee” (Charles Wesley, “And Can It Be?” in Sing to the Lord, p. 225).

          In his famous sermon entitled “Catholic Spirit,” John Wesley accounts differences of opinion, worship, and even important doctrinal issues as of little significance in how we approach and treat other persons.  He writes:

“I dare not, therefore, presume to impose my mode of worship on any other.  I believe it is truly primitive and apostolical: But my belief is no rule for another.  I ask not, therefore, of him with whom I would unite in love, Are you of my church? of my congregation? Do you receive the same form of Church government, and allow the same Church officers, with me?  Do you join in the same form of prayer wherein I worship God?  I inquire not, Do you receive the supper of the Lord in the same posture and manner that I do? nor whether, in the administration of baptism, you agree with me. . . . Nay, I ask not of you . . . whether you allow baptism and the Lord’s supper at all.  Let all these things stand by; we will talk of them, if need be, at a more convenient season; my only question at present is this, -- “Is thine heart right, as my heart is with thy heart?””  (John Wesley, “Catholic Spirit” in The Works of John Wesley, vol. 5)

Although Wesley admonishes us to be fully convinced of our own stances in these matters, we should not impose them on others, but let our encounters be defined by love and prayer.  Wesley, for example, says:

“while he [a catholic spirit] is steadily fixed in his religious principles, in what he believes to be truth as it is in Jesus; while he firmly adheres to that worship of God which he judges to be most acceptable in his sight; and while he is united by the tenderest and closest ties to one particular congregation -- his heart is enlarged toward all mankind, those he knows and those he knows not; he embrace with strong and cordial affection, neighbours [sic] and strangers, friends and enemies.  This is catholic or universal love.  And he that has this is of a catholic spirit.  For love alone gives the title to this character: Catholic love is a catholic spirit” (Wesley, p. 503). 

This appears indeed an attitude astonishingly open toward others and their differences.  Love must always frame our actions and reactions.  What we do and how we act must be driven and determined by the love of God.  Likewise, how we respond and what we say to others must erupt out of the love of God being poured into our hearts!

          One phrase continues to resonate with me: “What won out over argument was brotherliness; love prevailed over law” (Smith, 220).  You see, loves always wins!  Paul, formerly Saul the persecutor of the church, is so convinced of the power of the love of God that he reminds his Christian friends time and again that love always wins.  To the church in Rome he says: “Let love be genuine.  Love one another with mutual affection.  Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law.  Love does no wrong to a neighbor.”  To the church in Corinth Paul writes: “Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude.  It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth.  It bears all things, believes in all things, hopes in all things endures all things.  Love never ends” (I Corinthians 13:4-8a).  To the church in Ephesus Paul says: “Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children, and live in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God” (Ephesians 5:1).  To the church at Colossae he writes: “As God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience.  Bear with one another and, if anyone has a complaint against another, forgive each other; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.  Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony” (Colossians 3:12-14).

          All of these admonitions to love erupt out of Paul’s personal encounter with God on the Damascus Road.  In every letter Paul writes he presents the Good News and, then, proceeds to illustrate who we become through the cross; through the death and resurrection of Jesus the Christ.  Our lives become God’s illustrations to the world at large.  Living our lives to God’s greater glory always begins and always ends at the foot of the cross!  For in the cross we discover the love of God for ourselves and find out that love always wins!  Love always triumphs -- even over death!

 “May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else, just as our does for you.  May he strengthen your hearts so that you will be blameless and holy in the presence of our God and Father when our Lord Jesus comes with all his holy ones” (I Thessalonians 3:12-13).  Go this day in the peace, the presence and the power of our resurrected Lord -- Jesus the Christ!  Amen!

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